Intro
One of the great things about trading is that it is constantly teaching me to let go.
I cannot control the outcome no matter what.
I can control the process.
I can select a reasonable entry.
I can select the correct stop.
I can select as appropriate target based on the traders equation.
I can select a reasonable exit.
I can match my style of trading the current price action.
I can shift when the market shifts, like a surfer when the wind changes.
Each trade is a chance to practice a process.
And I control that process.
Last Night
Last night I traded poorly.
The afternoon I had traded exceptionally well.
I did not check in on euphoria before I began.
I did not follow my pre-trading routine.
I did take 3 of the 4 best trades.
I did take the correct stop.
I did not manage them well.
I let an early mistake dictate the rest of my session.
I prevented myself from taking the correct exits.
Should I give up on my trading career? No.
I can work on the process.
I can choose not to trade because of earlier winners.
I can practice having my first trade a loser and then calmly trading the market and not my need to get even.
By focusing on what I can control, I shift blame to responsibility.
By accepting mistakes as they are, a chance to learn, I create space for new development to occur.
If I think I am too good to make mistakes, I limit my future.
Luckily I have developed enough self-awareness to know when I’m not trading my best.
Luckily I have developed the self-esteem not to confuse myself with my performance.
Trading is a great place to practice this character development.






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